Take this quiz to
see if he is a narcissist:
1. Does he act out in verbally aggressive
behaviors, or does he have 'rages', especially if he feels he has been insulted
in some way? Does he blame 'you' or accuse you of being the one that is 'acting
out' or 'out-of-control'?
2. In the beginning was he just 'too good
to be true'?
3. Does he rely on you financially, or
does he ask you to help him fund things?
4. Does he often spend outside of his
5. Is everything always about him and
is nothing ever about you? Does he seem insensitive to your needs, unappreciative
of your input, or non-acknowledging of your accomplishments? Does he not
recognize your giving, kindness, and thoughtfulness? Does he seem genuinely
not interested in your life?
6. Is he controlling? Do you often feel
7. Does he show one side (Dr. Jekyll)
to the public (a perfected persona which you know is fake), and another side
(Mr. Hyde) to you in private? Does he go out of his way to impress
8. Does his ego bruise easily, or is he hyper-vigilant to the slightest
9. Does he expect special treatment or feel he is 'entitled' to it?
10. Does he talk about himself more than you feel is normal?
11. Does he avoid eye contact with you, or does he withhold sex or affection?
Has he been unfaithful?
12. Does he seem to lack empathy or compassion
for others, or does he 'fake' it to enhance his 'public persona'?
13. Do you feel emotionally battered and confused?
14. Have you noticed your confidence or
15. Is he histrionic? In other words,
in public does he hog the limelight, putting on exaggerated shows and telling
fascinating stories of himself in order to be the center of attraction? Is
he loud or does he act like he is on stage when engaging in simple conversations
with other people?
Have You Broken Up With, or Are You
In Love With a Man That Has a 'Counterfeit Heart'?
Understand what it's like to break
up with a
narcissist so that you
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Living with, Loving and LEAVING the
Breaking up with a histrionic narcissist? Be prepared
for the battle of your life! While you are an emotional basket case, the
man with a narcissistic personality disorder is as Cold as Ice! While
you are left holding down the fort and dealing with the real-life
responsibilities, he walks away from everything leaving you to mop off
his stage and pay his bills. He will punish you in ways you couldn't
possibly have ever imagined...
....and not even acknowledge it to himself! Why?
Because he's off charming the socks off of new women as if your years together
didn't even exist!
And to him they didn't! The narcissist has a
"Read Tigress' books.
Oh I wish I could've spent a mere few bucks and learned all that at 18 (the
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Of course, you will never see this in
the beginning of the relationship with a narcissistic man. Many women do
not see any of these harmful qualities until the relationship gets serious
because both the narcissist and his prey tend to idolize people in the
beginning of relationships.
And being idolized feels good - so good that we often willingly overlook
the red flags.
know how to fake orgasm. Men know how to
fake an entire relationship. ~ Sharon
Whether or not this has happened to you, it is
still a very painful realization
you come to discover that you meant absolutely nothing to someone you loved
very much. The realization that this man never loved you (don't delude
yourself) hurts beyond compare. It is hard to understand that a histrionic
narcissist loves only himself, and, if anything, considered you more a
'love-rival' than a 'lover'.
Truth is, you didn't exist to the narcissist.
The man with a narcissistic personality disorder is so totally and completely
self-centered to the point of being the only person in his life - ever. You
simply were a temporary ego-boost. A narcissist supplier (an enforcer and
validator of his self-love). His mirror.
Nobody knows better the pain of living with, loving,
and leaving a sociopathic narcissist better than I. I have been there and
I know, first hand, how it feels to be the guiding shadow of this damaged
man. I know about the psychological, verbal, and emotional abuse. I know
about the neglect. I know how it feels to never have had him there for you
I know what it is like
to sit there in silence and listen to him talk about himself all day
- and all night. I know what it is like to never, ever be acknowledged or
I know what it is like
to have him dislike everything about you - from your perfume to the car
you drive to your very own
I know what to expect when
breaking up with this man. And I know the damage that can be done to the
woman that loves him and leaves
And I want to share my
knowledge with you, so that you may be spared the heartache associated with
a breakup in a narcissistic-based
If you want to read about this man ... and really
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have been through, plus get real explanations to why you feel the way you
do, then you must read on.
The secrets about him I am about to share with
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place and peace of mind.
why he has a callous disregard for you
why he treats you like 'The Enemy'
what are the histrionic and narcissism disorder
signs and how can you recognize them
why any argument with him always leads to him
being the 'damaged party ' and you feeling beaten without ever having even
opened your mouth
why, even after you have left him, you still
hurt instead of feeling good to finally be rid of all the pain caused by
his antisocial behavior disorder or by his narcissism
why he hates everything you like - from your
music preference and perfume, to your friends and pets
why he disagrees with any of your choices, opinions,
how he truly feels about you, and why it matters
to you so much
who the Toxic Narcissist is, and how to recognize
which type of the Nine Types of Toxic Narcissists your man is (Yes, they
are not all alike!)
why Narcissists are rarely faithful, and why
it has nothing to do with you
what to expect in and after the breakup
why he has distorted views of you
why he never will be able to take responsibility
how people who know him really feel about him,
why you went from his 'partner' to his 'rival'
- almost overnight
what the "Three A's" are that motivate the
narcissist and how they influenced your relationship with him
how to recover - really recover - from the worst
nightmare of your life, loving and leaving a narcissist or sociopath
why he 'demonizes' and 'devalues' you
why, when you are around him, you behave in
a manner that is totally unlike your normal, beautiful self
recognizing the symptoms and learning the definitions
of Histrionics and Narcissism
how to survive a narcissist
narcissistic personality disorder, traits, and
behavior in men
signs and traits of a narcissist relationship
and a histrionic relationship
Sounds to good to be
It's not! I can help you get the answers you need to his behavior
so that you can finally find some peace in your life (and with yourself)
... Something that is probably long over due if you have been with anyone
who has narcissism or has a narcissistic personality disorder!
"Narcissists become particularly shameless
during a divorce. They accuse the other spouse of neglecting the children
when the reverse is true. They hide their assets long before the formal divorce
proceedings begin. They lie about their net worth so they don't have to part
with alimony or child support. Some narcissists, both male and female, abandon
their families all together and start new lives with more attractive, adoring
and compliant partners. Leaving the previous spouse and children in a
state of financial and psychological chaos is of no consequence to them.
Many narcissists repeat these egregious patterns of behavior throughout
their lives without shame or regret." ~ Linda Martinez-Lewi Ph.D.
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