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Have you read Steven Carter and Julia Sokol's books? Have you read 'Men Who Can't Love', 'Getting to Commitment', and 'He's Scared, She's Scared'?

Do YOU Love a Commitment Phobic Man? You're not alone! And you can join the rest of us NOW! We have an awesome - and private - Support Forum for those of us who are madly in love with a Commitment Phobe, which comes with these TWO Great eBooks, From Commitment Phobe to "I Do"! and Dream Chasers: The CP Addiction, both written by Tigress Luv, The Breakup Guru!

"First of all, thank you tigress for that super good book! I loved it!! worth every penny!!" ~Pip

"I had an epiphany today when I read your book on commitmentphobia. I wanted to write you and to thank you for your insight. I feel better already and I'm not even finished with it! I can hardly wait to read the others. God bless you." ~Leah Anne


From Commitment Phobe
to "I Do"!

getting to commitmentA Strategic Ten-Step Plan for Winning Over Your Commitment-Phobic Lover

This amazing and truthful eBook shows us how to win over the heart of a Commitment Phobia Person and get them to offer us a real commitment of marriage!

Now you can learn the special strategies you need to get your CP to open up to you, come back to you, and want to be with you - forever.

You will learn about
  • What to do to get through to a man who won't commit

  • The Commitment Phobe

  • What attracts a Commitment Phobe

  • How to win his heart

  • The 25 If's, 20 Don'ts and THREE GOLDEN RULES

  • What to expect when going after a commitment

  • Why you are attached to him

  • What two things never to do

  • Warning signs of a Commitment Phobic Person

  • Ten right-on strategies designed specifically for those in a CP-based relationship

  • CP relationship facts

  • How to handle special issues and stages

  • What to say and do when he ask for a commitment

  • The Rules of Attraction

  • And more!

    Get it together with our other eBook here, Dream Chasers: The CP Addiction, and with our awesome Support Community where you can get encouragement and support from other Community members....

Learn all about loving a commitment phobic person today!

"It truly is helpful to read the books and hear from others." ~anon

"Dear Tigress, I just had to write and tell you that your book 'Dream Chasers' saved my life! I feel like I've been in a prison all these years (four!) and have finally been paroled. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!" ~ Sarai


Dream Chasers: The
Commitment Phobe Addiction

Dream Chasers: The CP Addiction (Falling in Love and Dealing with a Commitment Phobic Person)

This great and insightful eBook discusses
the mistakes we tend to make
when handling our CP's (commitment phobes), the attraction of the CP (commitment phobia person), and CP Addiction...that special thing that keeps you hopelessly attached to, and attracted to, the commitmentphobia man.

Guaranteed to open your eyes on your commitment phobic lover and understand your own actions in your relationship with a CP - actions which are only enabling your partner's commitment phobia behavior!

Find out about
  • Warning Signs of a Commitment Phobic Person & the Fear of Commitment

  • The Four Classifications of Commitment Phobes

  • The Lure of the Commitment Phobe

  • Love Terrorism

  • The Tactics Used by Those in Love With a Commitment Phobe - and Why They Don't Work

  • Common Traits That People Who Are in Love With a Commitment Phobe All Portray

  • How We Become Attached to the Phobia

  • The Commitment Phobe Relationship Cycles

  • And More!

    This book is a MUST read! Get it together with our other eBook here, Commitment Phobe to "I Do"!, and with our awesome Support Community where you can get encouragement and support from other Community members....

Learn all about loving a commitment phobic person today!

"I don't know if you will ever read this. I'm sure you have an inbox filled to compacity with emails from women dealing with dating issues, but I wanted to thank you.

I don't know what made you write the commitment phobe books. Money? A need to help others? A little of both? But I must say, I have never had it so blatantly put to me with pin-point accuracy EXACTLY what was occuring within me and my CP. I purchased the $24 books desperately hoping to find a way to fix my relationship with my CP, to finally "win" him. However, these books opened my eyes to things I hadn't wanted to face or had refused to face before. I expected a manual on how to get my CP back, but now I see that I can't and that it's an addiction that I must face and work out MYSELF.

BOTH I and my CP were textbook, exactly as you described us. He is successful and smart, but has had a rough past. Most likely he is dealing with abandonment issues himself. And I? I am a successful, attractive woman. An accomplished musician, with a Master's degree in chemistry, working on a PhD. I've never "lost" at anything in my life...

And since during my dealings with my CP, I practically became a stalker, I know that he has and is doing this to other women and that it is not just me. Perhaps this is a blessing or perhaps a curse because I have access to what he's doing at all times (I don't really want to say how over email). I've realized, however, that it was NOT me (he does this to all the women in his life), and that I must WORK like I've never worked before to heal MYSELF and let it go. Knowing about the other women helps in the sense that I see that everything you said in your book is true, but now I must also learn to not use this to learn more about him. To be worried about him constantly, and now, because I can access him at will, that is going to be really be hard....

And I also know that I must prepare. Prepare for if and when he decides he "can't live without me", that I'm "the perfect girl for him and he was an idiot", that "we should get married.... Well, one day. Not soon, though."... All of which has been said to me before and will most likely be said again when I try to let go.

But thank you. Whatever the motivation to write these books. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I was skeptical about the books. I wanted an answer to how to "win" him. I figured, eh, what's a few dollars?... But hopefully, now, you have sent me on my way to actualy recovery and ACTUAL happiness. I am in your debt."

"I cannot tell you how thankful I am that I found this site and read these books. My sister-in-law told me about this place and when I hesitated she said 'just read them! You won't be sorry!' and she was right!"~ Kaye"

The system is delivered to you instantly! This means that you can be reading these eBooks and joining in on our Commitmentphobic-Man Lovers Support Forum in as little as three minutes from now!

If you are desperately in love with a man that won't make a commitment to you, these eBooks and their Support Community is a must have for you!

The ebook is free when you join our 'Lifted Hearts Community', along with all our ebooks, and its awesome support boards, chats, even your own blog, plus much, much more! This means that you can be reading it in as little as three minutes from now, and chatting with others who are exactly the same place you are - brokenhearted! Click here now to learn more!


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