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It is so wonderful
over there (Lifted Hearts Community). So many people so much support and
it is really helping me feel better. It is so much better than being lonely
and sad which is what I have been this week. I am in the beginning stages
and I feel so alone and hopeless and it helps to hear that I am not alone.
The others on the board have been helping me so much. There are so many people
there posting that I find myself checking it a few times a day. Someone ALWAYS
responds to my post and it is so comforting to know that there is support
out there. Remember what that was like????"
"I'm new to this
site and stumbled across it when my girlfriend and I broke up five weeks
ago. Just reading some of your posts has been really helpful in coping with
my loss and it's comforting to know that so many of you out there are going
through the same pain that I'm experiencing."
"Welcome to all
that are new to this forum. You may not realize it yet, but by finding this
site, you are already on your way to recovery." ~a
"We all understand
the pain and suffering that you are going through. We have all been there
or we wouldn't be here. Everyone that is here is at a different stage of
healing. Some are just beginning the long journey, and some have completely
recovered and are here to offer support and guidance, and all that are somewhere
in between." ~a member
"What you will
find from this site: everyone here has been or is in your shoes, everyone
is trying to help, offer encouragement, offer suggestions, tell of their
experiences to help guide others from making the same mistakes, provide a
shoulder to cry on." ~a member
"I am happy that
I found this site yesterday. I know that I will visit it often as I need
a place like this to go. I have learned so much from it already. Thanks for
being here." ~a member
"This site can
be a lifeline in a time of need. You will find people here that are in different
stages of healing. we are all here for you, you need this board!" ~a
"I found this
site 3 months ago, it has been a god send." ~a
"I was surfing
the net in search of the answers that I was not able to get from him. That
was the day that I joined this community. A true God send! I read and re-read
the webBooks, I posted asking for advice, I received advice which I now
understand why was the best possible advice that I could have received."
~Rising Up "There
is such value in reading the stories that others post here." ~a
"This site is a
wonderful place and I appreciate you being there. I often may only have a
couple of minutes to visit but I look to this group as a safe place to retreat
and to say "I am scared", "I am sad", "I am confused", "I am feeling bad
today", "I need a hug", or to tell you when something goes well, too. I think
of it when I am feeling bad and cannot wait to stop in. I am glad that I
found you here. I have no one else to turn to. This is exactly the place
that I needed to find. Thank you!" ~a member
"Tomorrow I will
be alone. I hope that I can stay busy and not get depressed over her. I feel
ok though because I can come here and post and/or read some from the library
of webBooks. It really is good to know that you all are here - that I have
a place to go. Before finding this site, I had no place to go and no one
to talk to. I appreciate finding this site. I appreciate your posts and support.
Thanks for caring." ~a member
"I am so happy
to have found this place to come and share, talk, read, and basically not
feel so alone. You guys have been wonderful to talk to and I appreciate all
of you being there. Your words and friendship mean so much to me. I have
been very busy this week at work and have not been able to get here until
now, but I have thought of this site, and this board and how good it feels
to be here and to talk to you. Before finding this site, the loneliness and
fear, and the feeling, at times, that I had no place to turn was dreadful."
"This place has
been wonderful, there were times where I really felt like you guys really
knew me, and it was such a wonderful experience to know that I wasn't alone.
I had some rough times, but the advice, and kind words I received greatly
"This site has
been a godsend to me and has helped me through a very difficult period. I
have learned so much from all of you. I have especially learned how many
good, kind, caring people are out there - people who will offer so much support
and friendship to complete strangers." ~Free At
"I found this site
yesterday and have already gained so much from reading some of the information
and posts. I was sure that somewhere on the internet there had to be a place
to come when you needed to talk (not pickup people) and receive constructive
comments from people who may have been through similar situations. This seems
to be the place. " ~Linnie
"I'm new to this
site, having stumbled upon it yesterday after stumbling upon Tigress Luv's
web book while looking for internet material on relationship breakups. Like
several other people have mentioned, I'm very impressed and appreciative
of everyone on here, and the chance to express heartfelt feelings without
being ridiculed or judged. Ordinarily, I keep most things to myself, but
it really does help to get feedback from others who are going -- or who have
gone -- through the same thing. In fact, I was taken back as I read the posts
here how many other people are suffering through emotional upheavals because
of broken relationships."
Dear Tigress Thank you for setting this wonderful community I must say I
am amazed and have learnt so much in regards to letting go of the past and
living now. The people here are fantastic and reading others stories and
the similarities are freaky but the outcomes seem the same, the advise members
give are great and to have an input is great too, I have had a difficult
time myself and have managed to get through. I so wished I knew about this
site before as the pain of getting through would have been shared and so
Thank you again,
your books have been inspirational and helped me enormously, made me think
of the situation I have let myself get into and how to get out and let go.
I am on the site
and helping others where I can. regards Znino
I'm a boy from Spain, my english is bad but I'll try to write it fine. I'm
29 years old. I bought your ebook about get my girlfriend back. I think I
loss her forever because I cut every possible contact with her (my friends,
internet connections, my hobbies...) about 7 weeks. She tried contact me
the two firsts weeks, but I avoid her attempts of contact. Then she desisted
and then I buy your ebook.
Thanks you. I learned the real cause why she dumped me! I really love that
girl but I think that I should move forward because I think that she has
move forward too.
but hey, I'm happy because I learned a lot from your ebook. I've read LOTS
of them, but "how be the bastard that women love" was an eye opener! I was
little resistant, I tried to be perfect. My nice guy was the number 4, the
'brother'. I have too a poor manliness. Now that I've read this, I'm gonna
try an accidental contact with her going out by the places that we had in
common. But I'm happy anyway.
Please, keep me informed about new ebooks that you could sell.
Thanks you again :)
"I can only say that your e books were the best help that I could have had
during the most traumatic time Ive ever had in my life. My boyfriend
of 2 ½ years decided to call off our relationship. I followed the tips
in your books and after 8 weeks it was back on that was 2 months ago and
we really are stronger than ever before. Everything that you said would happen
did, his behaviour was like reading from your book. In terms of insight into
my own personality and the way that I behave it was invaluable and I really
wont make those mistakes again, ever. So thank you , I would certainly
recommend this to anyone going through difficult times, it was fantastic,
it gave me a plan, which in turn gave me hope and got my life back on track
at the same time. This got me through the first few weeks and is still helping
me now. I read it over and over again, especially when I was low. He now
does all of the things that he never used to do and Im so less needy,
I feel like all of the negative stuff that made me what Id become have
fallen away and Im back to my real self again.
"I know you may not be reading this, but this helped me so much and it worked
and most of all helped me to realize that I had to let go and when I read
this ebook I became peaceful and back to my self...Thank you and pray for
You are a talented writer! I have bought so many books with the hope of having
some new understanding about myself and they all say the same stuff that
you can't even remember once you put the book down. Not yours! Wow. What
an effect your breakup book had on me. Kind of miraculous. You get to the
meat of the matter, it was better than a one on one professional therapist
session. Thank you for lifting my heart!
Rita M, Houston Texas"
"I had signed up for the book earlier but didn't read past the first couple
pages. Now, having read most of the book,...
This is the most incredible, insightful book I've ever read. Really. Better
than Mars/Venus. There is wisdom on every page. The description of Love and
the description of Forgiveness are so well done. I'll be sending customers
to buy your book. Signed, heartbroken"
"I want to thank you for your on-line materials. After 50 days my ex-girlfriend
of two years came back in tears. I used the techniques and maintained a strong
faith in God that we could be together. I was prepared to lose her forever
if that's what it took. It's true that you cannot make someone love you and
despite the horrible pain of losing her, I learned a great deal about myself
and relationships in general by reading your book. I am a better boyfriend
and she is a better girlfriend. I guess that despite the break-up pain, IT
HAD TO HAPPEN to make things better for the future. I am so very happy with
the outcome and I want to congratulate you on the excellence of your book
and the truths it reveals. Thanks again, Mike"
"I have read a couple of your ebooks a few years ago and found myself in
need of your guidance once again--your knowledge worked for me about 6 years
ago and I know if I put my mind to it and put myself first once again I can
accomplish anything. You are truly inspirational and so I thank you once
again as I turned to your ebooks for the push and dedication I need in order
to see things from the perspective I keep blinding myself too :)
"Thank you for telling the truth about being a man in an environment today's
that is saturated with toxic gender blending social "norms". Your e-book
serves a wakeup call to every man who has every subscribed to crazy bullshit
ass ideologies of The Feminist Moment, Dr. Phil, Self - Help books and others
who use covert and overt tactics to feminize every red blooded masculine
man western society into becoming a sexually "non-threatening" nice guy.
You are the real deal Tigress!
"Please thank Tigress Luv for writing a book that was truly one of the most
honest and helpful books in helping me to let go of the pain associated with
a breakup from someone I truly loved (or thought I loved). No psychobabble.
No miracles. No therapy. Reality check. I hope Tigess is still writing currently.
"I read the book and it helped in so many different ways.. thank you. we
are back together and working on things. Thank you for your help. Terri"
"I just got done reading your book about why women love bastards. I know
that you are 100% accurate on this, I just lost a girl because she lost her
attraction to me and I'm certain that it was because of many of the things
that I did that you mention in the book. I didn't even realize that i was
doing them at the time and wish now I could change that because she is a
great catch. Chad"
"I have to say that the name 'Tigress Luv', initially, to a 'stiff upper
lip' Brit, sounded a bit offputting, but when I started to read the stuff
about relationship break ups, having just suffered a second break up with
a man I still love dearly, the 'How to Stop Your Breakup', hit the right
note. I joined and have been reading the ebook, and I am gobsmacked, for
want of a better word. Tigress could of course, have been writing about me
personally, and I am reading the book, finding myself nodding at every comment,
and every page. I have committed all of the 'faux pas' Tigress outlines,
and can totally, absolutely see the rationale behind her innate logic and
Whether my relationship repairs or not, I am already feeling better having
read the book. If I only downloaded and read this one book, I would feel
it is worth the price of the gold membership. I hope to find time to join
in on some of the forums, but am a very busy professional in the (note: industry
purposely removed to ensure privacy) world, at the top of my profession,
maybe, internationally known, but at the bottom of the heap when it comes
to successful relationships.
Thank you Tigress, for your wisdom, humour, and for inspiring hope. I will
recommend this site to any friends in future, who suffer the same problems
"Miss Tigress, I would like to send a testimonial for you.
Since I completed reading your book about How to Get over a break-up I realized
a lot of things:
-I missed a lot of things in my life, good ones especially! Because I was
too busy thinking about my ex-boyfriend and how he is or what he does. I
find it crazy but I was addicted to the thought of always thinking of him
that it consumed me and the way I look at myself.
-I wasted a lot of energy, money, time for a person who is not mine. But
now I am happy and contented with a lot of things I used to not enjoy before.
-I love myself more and take care of me more. I am now thinking of myself
first and I learned how Apathy worked for me. You're right, it's very powerful!
I call it PowerTool! By the way your techniques are not only applicable to
relationships, dating but also in the career. It made become more patient,
more logical and my thoughts and my mouth don't get dirty anymore..
-I realized I have friends and family who are there that I neglected before.
-If you make a person as the center of your life, you'll fail...that's absolutely
I learned a lot from you Tigress! and I love the support of the
brokenheartsville! I will never forget how worried, sad, depressed I was
at the first few months but now I am completely happy. It took me 3 months
by the way to read all the books and ready myself and got support from the
community and cried in front of PC and so on. Now I am laughing! And it took
me another 3 months to finally over with the last stages of grief! And now
I am concluding, if i get a man fine! if not fine!
Thank you Tigress and more power!" chinky_eyes
Tigress. You and your
ebooks have helped me more than you can ever know. I would be lost without
This place is the
place to be for support and love
This place has help
me more than you will ever know!!!!
So many times what
I was able to say here I would have kept inside!!!!
The advice is
excellent..........and i think that it is so neat that if you are having
a bad night and can't sleep you can just about be assured that there will
be someone...somewhere that can be there for you.
I find it so amazing
that even through the keys of the board you can feel the pain and the love
I seriously do not
know where i would be had I not been lead to this
I feel like we are
So thank you Tig
for birthing this place ...you have allowed change to come in so many
I just wanted to say thank you for this
website and the wonderful books that are within it. The information and knowledge
that is in these books should be learned by everyone. Thanks for all the
love and support that the site
You will have available
in this community the support and strength that you need to remove yourself
from this unhealthy "dance". There is a huge amount of wisdom here. Make
yourself available to it, come here when you are sad, lonely or angry and
I promise you will find what you need. We welcome you
You will get lots
of varying responses which really helps because you can look at things from
Your pain is uniquely
yours and everyone else's pain is their own. You're entitled to your feelings
whatever they may be. Share away...that's what our community is
We are here for
each other and it's a safe place to vent all the things that we feel and
have done (even the things that we are not so proud of I know I
Everyone on these
boards have been a massive help to me and many
This website has literally changed me- thank
you so much and please thank anyone else you're in contact with for such
an incredibly loving place to go during a rough time!
You ask for love
and look what you got a whole community that just "loves you to
This is a fantastic
site, I am doing very well, have bounced back and dating a special
Many thanks for
your material. We did not get back together but within an hour of starting
to read your stuff I stopped feeling so damned wretched about things. And
now I am seeing someone new, something I doubt would have happened without
your web site.
I will have absolutely
no hesitation in recommending your site to anyone who is suffering through
a breakup and I wish you continued success.
I am confident that
the healthiness of this community depends on people's confidence in expressing
their feelings about life, about the own situations and about each others.
No one is here to be some gate-keeper to keep positive emotions in and negative
emotions out, and if it were so it would be something weirder than a
I'm glad there's
the courage shared here between many of us to say how the view looks from
where each of us is stood: long may it continue.
Thank you for your
words of encouragement and comfort...they mean so
Strange this is
...but as I finished reading the post from Coach I began to cry...haven't
all day......as the tears flowed it was as if I could feel you circle around
me... strange.. but it was such a feeling of safety and comfort. Thank you
again my dear friends for your time and strength...I will get through this..I
will and I will be better for it.
Wishing you each
the best of life!!
I considered it
a blessing to be in a community of such amazing
This place is filled
with such wisdom, care and love. We may not always agree but we don't have
to...we are all so different and each bring something different to the
table....what a blessing!!!!! Many of you do not know how uplifting it is
to watch you grow and work thru your pain and what beauty has come from it.
I pray that each of you find the love of your life and the joy of life in
the world we are so privileged to live in. Again thank you all for your
is a safe place for those of you who really need it. I know that I certainly
did at one point and everyone here was fantastic. It's a beautiful community
with loads to offer anyone at ANY stage of healing.
Hello tigress, i
am honored to receive a reply from the GURU of RELATIONSHIPS, You and your
site has been a God Send to me!
When I get on this
site and feel the love and warmth and concern that you and all the others
impart, I become overwhelmed and spend half of my time in tears because of
the goodness I feel coming from all of you. I almost cannot believe it, it
moves me..It has restored a lot of my faith in humanity, I now know that
there are people who love and feel compassion and concern for another...I
have not felt that in a long time, all of you ARE doing the work of
Thank you for loving
You've found a very
compassionate and amazing community here and we learn from each other and
offer each other tremendous support. We do have our dysfunctional moments,
but they are few and far between...but by and large we are really a family
and some of us have even met (and stay in touch off the boards) in real life.
There's always something going on here, so keep your eyes peeled on ALL the
forums and maybe something will be happening in your
This is a great
place to start your journey and we'll stay in step with you as you go through
You are so right
about this compassionate and amazing community...All of you have helped me
tremendously...The knowledge and wisdom shared in this community has become
a foundation that I will plant my feet in and hang on
Hi and WELCOME!!
You've found a great place to pour out your heart, and to learn. I know you're
hurting right now, but I promise...if you stick with us...it will get
Hi and Welcome to
Lifted Hearts....you are not here by accident! This is a loving and giving
safe place for you to explore who you are!
the reason that brought you here, but so glad you are here. A heart break
brought me here and this place gave me the tools I needed to make changes
in my life. I will never regret that love and break-up because of what it
taught me about me and pointed me to Lifted Hearts.
You are in the right
place, and you can post and spill your guts every day and the GREAT people
on this board will support you every step of the way
I echo what people
have said. This site is a great place to vent, and get the advice and support
that you need while you are determining what direction you are going in.
Your website gave
me such comfort. I hope I will never have to come back again, but I will
surely be there if needed. I will be sure to send my heartbroken friends
to this site.
Your website was
wonderful for me when I was going through my heartache. I am feeling better
God Bless. It is
a wonderful thing you are doing.
"I am more and more astonished by this book
by Tigress. It has helped me more than a dozen counselling sessions, and
I cant believe how much more positive and accepting of my situation it has
made me, just by reading it. I haven't even got round to reading any of her
other books yet, this one has been all the help I need, for the time
Has Tigress never thought of publishing
it in hard copy? I am also an author in the (deleted to protect privacy)
world, of a best selling book, which the publishers have made a mint out
of, and me, bugger all! So I am currently writing my second book and will
self publish this time, probably in (deleted to protect privacy), as amazon
and other distributors will take it, no question.
Tigress's book 'How to Stop Your Breakup',
would I am certain, be a huge bestseller if sold through booksellers. It
is a book that would help many thousands, survive breakup, even if they didn't
get their partner back, it sure as hell prepares you to move on. It was the
title that attracted me, in my desperation to try to get my partner back.
There must be thousands in the same situation, and maybe that relationship
was never, is never, going to be right for them.
By just giving the reader the hope that
they might be able to retrieve the relationship, gets him or her feeling
more positive from the first chapter! But then, reading on, it also alerts
the reader to some facts that put the relationship into perspective, maybe
not always the perspective that we want to hear, but it forces the reader,
in a gentle, but no nonsense way, to face up to facts that I for one, had
been trying to bury. This has prepared me to accept that I may never get
the relationship back, but would I really have wanted it, in the way it was?
Unless it changed drastically, no, I wouldn't, and if it doesn't happen,
despite the fact I still love my ex, it has prepared me to move on and realise
that I was on my own before, and I can do it again.
I urge Tigress to publish this book for
the masses- it is SO invaluable. I have read a stack of 'self help' books
in the last few weeks, and nothing has helped me like 'How to Stop Your
All the best,
Two Keys to Surviving a
Breakup: Resources and Support
easy to enter, hard to maintain, and painful to leave. The first blush of
interest and attraction fuels the passion that ultimately leads to commitment.
In the midst of a relationship, all sorts of things can go wrong, from the
failure to communicate or taking the other person for granted, to infidelity
or abuse. The breakup is heart wrenching for both people, regardless of who
initiated the break up and even when there is good reason to split. That's
why, whether you're on the verge of breaking up, in the throes of separation,
or recovering from heartbreak, it's important to spend the time necessary
to heal. The best thing you can do to help this process along involves finding
the right support and resources.
Books are Wonderful Resources
Whether your goal is to mend a broken heart, win an ex back and get back
together, or to simply move on with your life, you can be sure that others
have traveled the same path. Because a breakup can make you feel lost, it's
extremely helpful to rely on the advice and experiences of others to put
you on the path to healing.
For example, if your boyfriend (or girlfriend) left you - and played the
blame game in the process - it's natural to feel unlovable and at fault.
Yet, if you look at the situation from the perspective that he or she left
because of his or her own dysfunctional psychological issues, you can more
clearly see that it's really not about you, and you can more freely move
on with your life.
On the other hand, perhaps you contributed to the break up of the relationship.
Perhaps you didn't express your appreciation and gratitude often enough,
or maybe you didn't give your relationship the priority it deserved. It could
be that, instead of tending to your relationship garden, both of you were
busy doing other things while the weeds took over. If your heart tells you
that your relationship is worth fighting for (not fighting over!), a book
can help you navigate the waters of getting back together.
Support is Essential
Few breakups happen overnight, so getting the support you need throughout
the process is essential. When it comes to breaking up, help yourself by
expressing your feelings and reaching out to others. Writing about your feelings,
asking others to listen to you vent, seeking out advice, and reading about
the experiences of others are all tools that can help you mourn your loss,
regain your sense of self, and move on with your life.
Online Support and Resources
A breakup is one of life's most momentous events, but the people who are
closest to you are often not very objective. After all, they may have their
own agendas in pushing you toward one course of action or away from another,
or perhaps they care too much to cause you any further pain.
When you go online, though, you can find sites that provide both a wealth
of downloadable books and support-oriented discussion boards. Instant access
to books can be a lifesaver, and discussing your situation and reading about
those of others can give you the one-day-at-a-time approach that will see
you though every stage of the breakup process. The best sites even have breakup
blogs, where you can journal your thoughts and feelings, and can read others'
A breakup is extremely difficult, but you don't have to go it alone. Whether
your goal is to mend a broken heart or get back together, find the online
support and resources you need.
To read our ebooks about relationships and breakups and to gain support
throughout your breakup journey please
join our support site